The humankind was created differed, gak there is one that is same. Although that twins although, they also were different. Because of that thought must be able to receive on what has Allah gave to us. Something that was thought by us bad not necessarily was bad and was not useful. Humankind only the place ketidaksempurnaan, that had perfection only Allah. So we must be grateful and continue to be grateful. Something that was beautiful in the eyes of us not necessarily was beautiful for us. The person who came to terms with himself was the person who always was grateful, in praying had ask for but expressed gratitude, always received himself the way it is. Could control emotions, had a positive attitude towards all the matters.

There was a story, in the morning someone saw the box in front of his house that contained the waste of cattle, and he knew that that placed this box was his neighbour personally. Positively he think that possibly the mangoes tree that in front of his house was more unfertile, so as his neighbour was concerned and wanted to give the waste of the cattle to be used as fertiliser for his mangoes tree that was more unfertile. From the story we could take wisdom that in facing our problem always must have a positive attitude and always wanted to take wisdom from each incident that struck us. In this way we can come to terms with ourselves without blaming anyone on what happened to us. How beautiful it is to live we if we could have come to terms with ourselves. Have you come to terms with yourself??